I recently attended a wedding where the best man made a speech starting with (corny, I know) "there are big ships, there are tall ships..................but the best of these are friendships." And, in my life at least, I think this motto should be written on my sleeve.
I'd like to add to that very profound speech that some ships may sail. And, truthfully, you may feel hurt and betrayed. And it will suck.
But then there are the goodies. The ones that never leave. The ones that you can spend 3 straight days with, unpacking boxes, doing grocery shopping, drinking coffee and often too much wine. Those are the ships worth buying a hat for.